April 29, 2024:
I’m a guy “in real life,” but I’ve always played female characters in video games. More and more people say this means I’m either secretly gay/trans or a total creep. Am I allowed to just prefer it? —Gender Player
Dear Player,
It sounds like you have a lot of people in your life, Player, who think they know you better than you know yourself. I won’t pretend to have insight into your deepest self, but I can offer some ways of thinking about your choice:
I’m a vegetarian, but I’d eat lab-grown meat. Does that make me a hypocrite? —Chicken Little
Seeing as you’re not grossed out by the idea of meat grown “in a peach tree dish,” as Marjorie Taylor Greene put it, I assume your vegetarianism is ethically or religiously motivated. Hence the fear of hypocrisy—but I don’t think that’s the right word, exactly, for what you’re feeling. A hypocrite is someone who claims moral standards that their behavior flatly contradicts, and lab meat, if we are to believe the hype, promises to be both humane and sustainable. Like many technological solutions that transform a vice into a neutral choice (clean energy, NA beer), it cancels out the moral calculus and relieves us of the duty to make sacrifices for a better world, or a better self. You can have your happy cows and eat them, too.
The hypocrisy you fear is more subtle and insidious. Maybe the idea of eating lab meat strikes you as a bad bargain, like allowing yourself to shower verbal abuse on a chatbot. The technical fact that it’s “not harming anyone” shouldn’t stop you from feeling queasy about your motives and the suggestion of antisocial desires that were probably better off repressed. As I’m sure you know, Chicken, it’s possible to push the Frankenmeat thought experiment into darker territory. Would you eat lab-grown human flesh? Would you eat meat grown from your own cells, or from those of a baby?
If you’re concerned with solely the practical consequences of your actions, then sure, you’re not betraying any of your values. What you are betraying is a certain idea of yourself. I imagine you became a vegetarian not because you truly believed your individual actions would change the world, but because you liked the idea of being the kind of person who was willing to do difficult things and make sacrifices for higher ideals. Perhaps abstention made the gauntlet of mindless consumer choices feel a tad more meaningful. Maybe it made you more willing to do other hard things for the sake of moral consistency. If you focus exclusively on the results of your actions, you’ll end up constantly hunting for ethical loopholes that come at the price of your soul. Virtue, even when arbitrary and pointless, has rewards of its own.
Now that AI can fake pretty much anything, I just assume everything I see or read on a screen is fake until proven real. Is that reasonable or cynical? —Doubting Thomas
I think you’re right to doubt, Thomas. Your namesake, the apostle, refused to believe in the miracle of resurrection until he saw proof with his own eyes. But what kind of hard evidence, if any, can convince us of anything in the Year of Our Lord 2024? Photos lie, machines hallucinate. The social sciences can’t replicate their most fundamental experiments. Data analysis, at a certain scale, can be exploited to prove basically anything. It’s easy to feel like something has been lost, that our faith in consensus reality—or any kind of reality—is on the decline.